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Alone? Let's Talk About It.

  Hi There! Let’s get straight to the point: Are you alone? I believe you’re never truly alone ; you just feel that you are alone.  You’re surrounded by different kinds of people all the time, but sometimes, you simply don’t feel like talking to them. When you feel like talking to someone but your family isn’t there, your relatives aren’t there, the person you love isn’t there, and your friends aren’t there — those moments are truly very difficult, and I know exactly how it feels. But think of it this way: this is the reality. You have always been alone, and you will always be alone. No one stays with you forever, and you will have to deal with your loneliness on your own. So, it’s better to get used to being alone, and there’s nothing wrong with it. If you never get too close to anyone, you will never have to lose them either. Always remember one thing: the more honest and truthful you are, the more you refuse to agree with everyone blindly, and the more you point out someone...

When Your Parents Don’t Understand You (Part-2)

  Hi There! Have you ever wondered why parents behave that way? Sometimes, parents think: We gave birth to our children, so we have every right to control their lives. They often believe that because they love us, whatever they say or do is always right. They believe, We’d never wish anything bad for our child. I’ve heard many people say things like: Parents are always right, They know better, You’re just too young to understand. Yes, if you’re lucky enough to have understanding parents, that’s a blessing. But that doesn’t mean every child has the same experience. Sometimes, the very place where a child should feel safest home, family , becomes the place where they feel the most fear, discomfort, or sadness. To Parents The reason I’m writing this is not to point fingers. I simply don’t want to see children hating their parents or parents hating their children. This is one of the worst feelings in the world for both. Not every child is meant to be a doctor or an engineer. Some are m...

When Your Parents Don’t Understand You (Part-1)

  Hi There! I believe almost everyone can relate to this. Many children go through a phase where they feel like their parents don’t trust them, don’t give them freedom, don’t truly understand their needs, and sometimes even favour their siblings over them. I truly understand how much this hurts. It becomes very difficult to live in such an environment. Especially when you start thinking for yourself, when you begin to say  this is not right , or when you  express your own opinions  or  start doing things based on your own choices,  you suddenly become the  worst child  of the family. Everyone starts treating you differently, hating you. You feel left out, judged, and alone. It feels like as long as you follow everything your parents say without questioning, follow them blindly, you’re the  “perfect child.”  But the moment you open your eyes and begin living according to your own thoughts, dreams, and understanding, you become the  “...

What does success means to you?

  Hi There! Let’s get straight to the point- What is the meaning of success according to you or I can say when will you feel successful? I believe, every person has a different meaning of success. For some, it’s financial freedom. For others, it’s finding love, becoming famous, or simply living a quiet life with family. But here’s the real question:  Is that truly success? We often think that we’ll be happy once we become successful, right? But after becoming successful, will there be no more problems in life? Will we always be happy then? Let’s assume you get everything you wanted your love, money, or whatever else. Fine, you’ll be happy, living a good life and all. But here’s the twist: what if one day, all of that is taken away from you? What if your money is gone, your love leaves, your name and fame disappear? Will you still be happy then? Will you still live a good life? Here’s the truth  you might not be. We often invest 10 or 20 years of our lives chasing these dr...

Control Your Emotions

  Hi There! I believe controlling our emotions is very important in our life and plays a major role in our success. The person who has control over his or her emotions is somewhere successful. Most of us make wrong decisions because we don’t have control over our emotions. We don’t think with our brain, we think with our emotions. For example, when someone is angry, they often react based on that emotion. When someone is sad, their thoughts are clouded by sadness. So stop letting your emotions control your decisions. Use your brain instead. Heart vs. Brain: Who Should You Listen To? People often ask should I listen to my heart or my brain? Some say always follow your heart, others say trust your brain. I was in the same stage too. But then I figured this out this: “Listen to your heart what it truly wants, then think about it using your brain, not emotions. Ask yourself: Will this decision be good for me? Will this decision help me in the future, or will I regret it later? For exam...

Why Socializing Matters in Today’s World?

  Hi There! Let’s go straight to the point. Are you a social person? Are you a person who can’t say no to anyone? Or do you have the guts to speak in public without having any fear or hesitation? Or can you give your personal opinion to someone? Do you have that courage? Are you that much social? If the answer is no, you’re not alone. Here’s something to think about  socializing is more than just small talk it’s a survival skill. Why It’s Important I prefer that socializing is an important term which plays a vital role in our self-growth. If we are not social in this world, then this journey is going to be very tough and painful because it’s very hard to survive for an unsocial person in this world. I myself have lived it and I know very well how it feels like. I have figured a simple thing  “The lessons that life, experience, and society will give you, books can’t.” Introverts Everybody is familiar with this word. It’s only a single word but controls many things and many...

Why Am I Not Strong?

Hi there! Have you ever reached a point in life where giving up felt easier than holding on? We all go through moments like that — facing loss, failure, heartbreak, or just the pressure of everyday life. These experiences can leave us feeling exhausted and weak. But here’s the truth: Strength isn’t about never breaking down. It’s about finding the courage to stand up again — even when you’re shaking . The things that hurt you now are the same things that will one day shape your power. Every struggle you face is part of your growth. Life itself is full of problems and  that’s not a flaw. That’s the design. Everyone around you is struggling with something: relationships, finances, mental health, family pressure, emotional pain. You’re not alone. “Why Me?” to “Why Not Me?” Have you ever asked this question to yourself? Most of us spend our lives asking, “Why?” Why the pain? Why the failure? Why me? But rarely do we ask, “Why not?” Why not try again? Why not believe in healing? Why not...